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The remains of January 2024

Like I mentioned in passing in the previous post, the Orem Utah Temple was dedicated on January 21. It was the second temple dedication we have attended and it doesn’t get old. To think now more work for our ancestors (and your ancestors) can be done to allow them a choice, whether to accept or not, the opportunity to live forever with their families in celestial glory.

Before I continue with our winter new year happenings, let’s take a break to see what our children and grandchildren are up to In no specific order.

The temperature in Minne-snow-ta went to -33 degrees and the kids were kept home from school for a few days. They were not kept in the house though. In that freezing temperature, they still wanted to go out and play. Nico used his knowledge in geography to create an ice map of the US. He later recreated all of the American continent – including a very noticeable Puerto Rico.

Lyvi and Caroline went into caves, saw dinosaur fossils, and had loads of fun all around in Texas after their train ride. Ben designed his own tie-die t-shirt and a necklace and modeled both at school. I love his sense of fashion and runway behavior!

Below you will see our newest family member: Briar Elena. She is with her dad, Charles Irby, our nephew. Then Alan and Amelia displaying their tablets with representations of “hold on to the rod.” Nico holds baby Ellie. Hugo celebrates his birthday quietly. David also celebrates but not as quietly. I got a new hairstyle! Sara is happy with her treats, before her kids Ben and Gabby finish them off. We went to see “The Chosen” season 4 at the movie theater. (So, we are not children or grandchildren… but we also know how to have fun).

Another first for us was attending a Pro-Life manifestation. We believe in the preservation of life. As physicians, we respect the right of unborn children to live. Abortion is not an option for us because the child has life and life was given by the Almighty God in the Heaven. I will get on my soapbox now, and please forgive me if you are offended by what I will say. If you decide not to forgive me, I will understand. Nevertheless, read on, and then decide. I studied medicine and I studied law. I know what many of my colleagues in both fields think and find that there are inconsistencies and incongruences all around. For example, I remember going as a Pediatrics resident to the delivery room and receiving a very premature baby, so premature that the eyelids were still fused. My intern opened the baby’s eyes and that obligated us to reanimate the baby and rush to the Nursery Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to preserve and sustain life. [Forty years ago, the standard rule for when to use measures to reanimate a neonate born prematurely depended on the stage of intrauterine maturity. When a baby was born with fused eyelids and could not open his/her eyes, no CPR was applied because it was considered a non-viable fetus. If the baby had open eyes, then the doctor could proceed with the reanimation.] The baby had many congenital abnormalities requiring extensive diagnostic tests and procedures. The baby’s parents begged us to stop doing procedures to keep the baby alive. I was a resident and cried with the parents, then turned around and did what my boss told me to do to preserve life. The baby died after two weeks. Compare that to a normal baby who is aborted near term, older than my premature patient and probably with a better potential to live a normal life. No effort was spared to help the fetus die. On the other hand, the law will give a more severe sentence to a criminal that causes the death of a pregnant woman when a crime is being committed. Contrary to that, voluntary killing of an unborn child was considered, until Roe vs Wade was overturned, a personal and private decision made by a woman. Even a minor was considered a woman who could abort a child at will without parental notification, even though she couldn’t get her ears pierced or her skin tattooed without parental consent. Talk about discrepancies! Before I get off my soapbox, let me finish with this: There are rights and there are responsibilities. Women have a responsibility to face the consequences of their actions. There are ways to avoid unwanted pregnancies including abstinence. Once the baby is on her way, for me, there are only two options: you keep the baby and raise her or you give her up for adoption. Is either of these options easy? No, but they are correct. I could go on and on, but I won’t. If you disagree with me, be kind as you write your comment, and if you can’t be kind, kindly keep it to yourself.

Here we are at the Orem Utah Temple dedication. We were blessed to be assigned to participate with Elder and Sister Christofferson, Elder and Sister Kearon, Elder and Sister Duncan, and Elder and Sister Schmitt. The elders participating in the dedication are in their white suits; everyone else kept their street clothes but wore shoe protectors inside the temple. The protectors are to protect the floors, especially the beautiful carpets and area rugs created especially for this temple. I learned something new. The designs on some of the carpets are cut by hand. That does not happen all the time. Sadly, it is a dying art. Now the carpet manufacturers can do the same work without the need of specialized artists. So sad.

We finished the month with the Red Cliffs Utah Temple in St George. It was our first Media Day. We trained on Sunday with the Stake Presidents who would host and guide the VIP guests the first part of the week. Then Monday morning we guided the representatives from the written press through the temple and then later we guided the influencers, those who write blogs and keep vlogs on the internet. Both groups were special but I guess I connected better with the younger influencer crowd. At least, I felt the influence of the Holy Ghost to a higher degree. The Area presidency rotates these responsibilities. So one member will do the Media Day and another will attend the dedication. I like doing this.

Happy New Year 2024!

What a way to start 2024, with temples being dedicated all around! This photo was taken in front of the Orem Temple before the dedication. The Orem Temple is in an area where orchards of cherry trees abound. The stained glass windows showcase the blossoms and then the fruit. These are also featured on the carpets and the ceilings. Indeed it is beautiful, as the House of the Lord is supposed to be.

Andres started the year buying a sheep for another family! We celebrated the start of the year with Nuria and the children by reading, eating out and going to see the third movie of Trolls.

We went to “Color Me Mine” and painted some ceramic thingies. I was not officially painting but decided to make Alan’s truck a little more truck-like, with black wheels.

We went to an exhibit about King Tut – it was one of those that show images more than anything but it was enjoyable. Then we went to a candy store, and to a trampoline park and ended up going to a Puerto Rican restaurant, a very good one too. Nothing like a Coco Rico and an “alcapurria”…

We ended the trip going to Orlando, first to Disney Springs where Miranda met with a friend and we walked around, then ate. The last day, we went to the temple and participated with the girls and Alex doing baptisms and confirmations of our family members. There is nothing like being in the temple with youth who understand the importance of doing ordinances for those who are departed (because they can’t do them for themselves), giving them the opportunity to accept or reject the gift of service given.

Sadly, we returned home. While it snowed in Salt Lake City, the grandchildren prepared for the arrival of the Three Kings. Some cut green grass, others cut dried grass, and some just couldn’t find any but left some treat for the Three Kings. Regardless, they got gifts and had fun.

While Lyvi and Caroline took a train to Texas to visit some parks, I went to the Church History Museum with the wives of the General Authorities to see the Minerva Teichert exhibition named “With This Covenant in My Heart: The Art and Faith of Minerva Teichert.” Then we went to Provo for a youth devotional and other weekend activities there. I tested the podium just in case it didn’t go low enough for me and I spent a great time getting acquainted with Sister Kristin Yee, Second Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She is a remarkable woman with a strong and clear testimony of Jesus Christ and His gospel. In between meetings we went to Mambo’s Buffet and had some Caribbean cuisine.

TO BE CONTINUED…

December 2023: Traditions, Service, and Fun !

The highlights of our month of December was the opportunity to spend time with Andres and his family early in December as well as Nuri and her family later in the month.

Iraida, Mimi, Hugo, and I went to see “Christmas Carol” and enjoyed it a lot. It was a musical version which we hadn’t seen before. The main actor who played Scrooge was excellent! Later in the week, I attended the Christmas Luncheon held for the wives of the General Authorities. Since my friend Pauline Kacher was one of the hosts, there was dancing involved! A totally different experience to what we have had before. You might think it was not very reverent, but it was. A children’s choir also participated and some of the wives recorded their experiences of being strengthened by Jesus Christ during difficult times. Another friend, Carol Wong, is shown on the screen. She spoke of how her grandmother never talked to her about the gospel as such but gave her a lasting example of being a disciple.

Right before leaving for our Christmas break, we accepted and invitation to attend a concert of the American Heritage School featuring Nathan Pacheco. He is a Brazilian church member who sings with a beautiful tenor voice. We have several of his recordings. I had been to a concert of his in 2018 but Hugo couldn’t go; I went with Iraida. So this was Hugo’s first taste of a live performance by Nathan and he did not disappoint. The orchestra and choir were all students of the AHS and they did a marvelous job during the performance. Another singer also participated, a young woman of Filipino descent with a magnificent voice whose name escapes me now. Hugo was asked to give some parting words. I didn’t know he would have to do that. He spoke very well.

We arrived in Puerto Rico and promptly visited with Don Hugo and Doña Daly. We took them to eat out, and when we didn’t, we spent the time talking and showing them pictures and videos of their great-grandchildren, most of them are our grandkids. One of our responsibilities is to care for the graves of Hugo’s grandparents. One is in Aguadilla (the one in the picture, before we had it cleaned and painted) and belongs to the Morales Alamo Family, and the other one is in Vega Baja (no image of it here) belonging to the Martinez Cancel Family (that is Don Hugo’s family). We had both graves cleaned and painted.

Some pre-Christmas activities of the grandkids: baking and choir singing in Florida, Victoria’s birthday celebration in Kansas, and Just playing around in NYC.

Visits to Santa Claus!

More activities before Christmas: parties, pajamas, and crafts, early Christmas gifts (for the sanity of Alissa, Ellie gets her activity chair before Christmas), decorating a gingerbread house, getting a picture in front of the temple, a cold walk in the park, and donations using the Giving Machine in NYC.

Andres, Sofia, Victoria, Daniel, David, and Isabela arrived in Puerto Rico and we got together with Tito, Marta, Alvaro, Grace, and Esteban. Guess where we went? Everybody’s favorite restaurant: El Metropol! We went to visit Don Hugo and Doña Daly During a lull, the kids and I kind of fell back on one of the beds. I was tired and closed my eyes, and Victoria said to me very sweetly, “Abita, don’t fall asleep or they will keep you here.”

We met with Elder Jorge Alvarado, his wife Cari, and their son Chucho and had breakfast at “Panaderia Lemy,” a bakery known for their very soft and slightly sweet bread. We ate at the Metropol again, this time with the parents-in-law and also went to Arecibo to eat at another favorite place, Tony’s Pizza, on road 129. This pizza place is a legend in our children’s minds. They say it is the best pizza but I think it is because they ate from there almost every week when visiting their grandparents. But their “Bistec encebollado” (onion steak) with “tostones” (smashed fried green plantains) is the best.

We stayed at a hotel that had a shuttle bus to Old San Juan and the Escambron Beach. We did all the touristy things in Old San Juan, such as the pictures with the parrots, buying souvenirs, eating ice cream, “piraguas” (ice cones), and popsicles, feeding the pigeons in the park (though I sat outside the “Parque de las Palomas” to avoid getting “marked”). We did have a strange visit to Andres’ hotel room from an elf that kept getting dressed with Isabela’s Barbie clothes and accessories.

There were dangerous riptides so the beach trip was to a little pool at the Escambron beach. The kids had fun regardless.

This year we got the Star Wars villains jammies: Darth Vader and Storm troopers. These villains played their dirty tricks on everyone: two pajama pants -no shirt for Jarrod and extra tight (superhero tight) male jammies for Andres and Gabo, and some other tricks that made me think I might not endeavor to buy pajamas for everyone again… I will think about it.

We had a Christmas dinner with Puerto Rican friends who serve with us in the Dominican Republic, too. On the left are José and Madelyn Santos and on the right are John and Flo Olsen. We loved catching up with them and eating delicious food.

What I wrote above is about “El Dia de las Mascaras” or Day of the Masks in Hatillo, a very colorful celebration with the most horrific of origins.

We flew to Jacksonville, FL, on December 29th and finished 2023 with Nuri, Alex, Miranda, Natalia, Amelia, and Alan. On the 30th we took an unexpectedly cold boat ride in St. Augustine, Florida, the oldest city in the continental US. It has a fort that looks a lot like el Morro. But San Juan is the oldest city in the territory of the US. According to Wikipedia: “St. Augustine is the oldest continuously occupied settlement of European origin in the contiguous United States. It is the second-oldest continuously inhabited city of European origin in a United States territory, after San Juan, Puerto Rico (founded in 1521).” There you go.

After the boat ride, we did our traditional “Pesadilla Familiar” (Family Nightmare) originally called the “Pasadía Familiar” (Family Outing). That all started with my in-laws. On December 31, Don Hugo would pack his camera and film and would plan a walk in Old San Juan to see the old buildings and take nice pictures of the family, especially the grandkids. Then he noticed the older generation would just go into the stores and he would loose control of the group and the walking tour. On the following year, he planned the route skipping the stores but all he got were complaints! No way to win. Despite all that, we did our own version of our “Pesadilla Familiar” in Antigua Guatemala while we served there, and in the Colonial Zone in Santo Domingo, and now in St. Augustine. But no matter where we do the “pesadilla”, the end result is the same: we are all too pooped to pop coming home.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

November 2023: Thankful for GRANDCHILDREN!

The highlight of this part of the month was spending Thanksgiving with Sara, Jarrod, Ben & Gabby in New York City. It was a bit cold but Hugo and I tolerated the temperature without a problem. We are veterans of Utah’s longest winter so far (so far in the last ten years of drought – Many of the water reserves that were running low were replenished. Not so with the Great Salt Lake but there is still hope.)

I will let you in on a little secret… I got there first, I mean to NYC. I am a lazy bum and did not want to fly to SLC and then fly back to NYC, so I flew straight to Sara and Hugo went to Utah by himself. He had some Church responsibilities to take care of before he came to New York. So I spent three days there until he arrived. I played trains with Ben; if it was warm enough, we went to the park, and then I played trains with Ben. We saw some Bluey shows, and did I mention I played trains with Ben? Actually it was fun for me and for him.

Once Abuelito arrived, Ben played cars with him. I played trains with Ben. Our Thursday Thanksgiving dinner was rather un complicated: we went to eat out to an Italian restaurant. It was good food, and interesting to watch Gabby deal with new surroundings. I think she did rather well: no tantrums nor running out to the street nor refusing to eat.

One of our more enjoyable outings was to take Ben and Gabby to a live Sesame Street Show on Friday. Gabby did not like the idea of being there until the lights went out and the show started. Then her attention was riveted on the show. Total success! At the end of the show we got them a Cookie Monster stuffy and an Abby stuffed doll. Gabby did not pay much attention to them at the moment.

On Saturday, we went to a newly-opened section of the Museum of Natural History, dedicated to the insect world. They had large sections for ants, bees, and butterflies, including a live butterfly garden. It was hot and humid, so Hugo went to enjoy the warmth and accompany Ben, but he refused to stay because he did not enjoy even the thought of having a butterfly get on him. He did like a stuffed boa to take home. We walked a lot but I was appreciative of some Uber rides, especially coming back from places.

We returned to Utah after our visit in NYC on Sunday and on Monday we were on our way to St. George for a Mission Tour with the Staples, a young couple with, at present, four children at home with them. They welcomed us to the Utah St. George Mission and to their home. The Utah missions are all very big in numbers at this moment due to the fact that the service missionaries are now part of a mission. This means that Mission Presidents have more manpower because some service missionaries will accompany teaching missionaries in their proselytizing work. It also means they have more missionaries to tend, though there are Service Mission Couples to help with the service missionaries from day to day. Overall, it is a win-win for everyone.

One of the nights I was taken to see St. George at night. It is beautiful! Especially the illuminated temple.

We continued to drive to Kanab after the mission so Hugo could reorganize the stake. The McClendon’s were our hosts and he was the outgoing stake president. I was very sick with sinusitis and had to stay away from all the meetings. Nevertheless, Sister McClendon was an angel getting me meds and a NetiPot to clean my nose.

We arrived in SLC safe and sound, December having started already. The lights were all on and we even got a picture of our Christmas tree as seen from the street. I started antibiotics for my sinus infection.

November 2023: Thankful for FAMILY!

It has been years since we have been together with our five children. This picture is how we started: a Mom, a Dad, and five children! So glad to get them together with us for a weekend, even without the grandchildren, it was a special couple of days. We came together to hold a service for Mari in Puerto Rico. I will give details later on.

The month started with the filming of a video announcing a YSA Utah Valley Institute Devotional to be held later in the month, a 10-day at-home course of antibiotics for me to fight a resistant bacteria in my urinary tract, and the welcome celebration for Elder Alvarado’s son (nicknamed Chucho) who returned from his mission in Portugal.

We had a Mission Tour of the Utah Salt Lake City Headquarters Mission. This mission is peculiar and unique because it has 900 senior missionaries, couples as well as single sisters, who serve in the different departments and areas such as Church History, Family Search, and the Church Office Building. President and Sister Holmes were pioneers in pulling this mission together because it did not work as a mission. But now it does. We had a devotional to start the mission tour. We went to the different departments and met many of the missionaries. Some are service missionaries, some are full-time, others are part-time or volunteers, serving different amounts of time, and completing a variety of tasks. I met a sister who has been serving 27 years in the Family History library! I met missionaries who will help you digitize your films, slides, pictures, and even books.

During the weekend of November 11 and 12, we had a variety of activities, which started with a multi-stake Springville Priesthood Leadership Conference with Elder Neil L. Andersen and Sister Andrea Muñoz Spannaus, Second Counselor of the General Presidency of the Young Women. After the Sunday session and before we went to the Utah Valley Institute Devotional in Orem, we visited with Sheldon and Karren Whitaker, with whom we served in the Dominican Republic. It had been several years since our previous visit. They look well and happy. The YSA in the devotional were great and we met their leaders, a group of awesome young people who don’t let anything stop them in their desire to serve the Lord.

Now, I pause to let you know that I decorated for Christmas early in the month of November because I knew that it would be my only opportunity to do so. I bought a new tree, I used only the ornaments that were lying around (I buy ornaments every opportunity I get and they are never stored in the ornament box but in drawers, any other box with decorations of any kind), and most important, I did not stress or worry if any one else would like it. It was just for Hugo and me. Am I selfish in doing that? I hope you don’t think so, my friend. I had no intention of showing off the decorations, just to be able enjoy the season before we left for most of the month of December. And when we return in January, it will still be Christmas for us and most other Puerto Ricans. We have the longest Christmas celebrations in the world, they say.

As I mentioned when I started, we came together to hold a service for Mari in Puerto Rico. It was a family effort in getting the things together for Mari’s Memorial Service. Hugo’s younger brother put together the program and asked Hugo and Marta to speak and he would also speak. Hugo’s parents didn’t want to speak. I was asked to direct the music and I said, “Sure!” Then, I realized that what he was asking me was different to what I usually do in our church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. To lead the music, as evangelical music is led, is to sing so everyone follows you.; it is, in effect, a solo performance. Oh, dear! I was worried I would do a poor job of it because I and not a soloist. Nuri helped me practice on an electric piano Hugo and I bought for the occasion, which would also replace Nuri’s old piano (if it arrived in one piece when we sent it to Florida by Fedex come Monday). I tried to have Lyvi or Sara take my place, but that was not going to happen. Asking the boys to sing is almost as bad as asking Hugo. Of the three males, not one can carry a tune. Aside from that little concern with the singing, we had a wonderful time walking around old San Juan, eating “Mallorcas,” visiting Don Hugo and Doña Daly, visiting with Victor, Marta, Charles, Andrew (Mari’s two sons) and their spouses. Lyvi took care of the video and the slide shows produced for the occasion.

We had the opportunity to take a family picture with those who travelled to attend the service. The lighting was not the best but we took it any way. The lower picture shows the grandchildren with Abuela Daly and Papá (that’s what our children call them). Missing are Alvaro, who was traveling outside Puerto Rico, Caleb and Gabriela, who could not make arrangements because of their jobs. It was a small miracle that our five did make it.

One last picture to show how family ends up together any way. Lyvi, Charles, and Laura ended up on the same flight out of Puerto Rico. They found out when they met at the airport!

A Pause to Talk About Quilting

I recently learned to make striped baby blankets. They are supposed to be baby blankets in size but mine turned out to be about 60 inches by 60 inches. The Mom’s were happy to have them bigger so that they can be used for a longer time. Babies do outgrow the smaller blankets so fast! The pink flamingo blanket belongs to Gabby and she loves it. We discovered that her Dad loves it too. It is big enough for him.

In between striped blankets, I started two Alphabet quilts in printed flannel strips. Where do you get printed flannel strips? You buy the yardage of printed flannel and cut them, There are some precut flannel strips but they are usually in solid colors with few exceptions. Something I have learned from starting this pattern: I still detest doing squares. Matching corners is a drag. I also learned that I am not that fond of triangles either. One last thing I learned is that I like to complicate things. You see, I thought that I could get away with using strips instead of squares sewn together… But the strips just complicate things because I cut them without taking into account that the squares sewn together eliminate 1/4 to 1/2 inch per square. So, I have to measure and remeasure every time I sew a letter. Already my “G” is shorter than my ” J”. Nevertheless, I will leave my feelings aside and finish these two quilts for my 4 year-old grandsons who will be maybe six by the time they are done. I will let you know.

Before I finish these letter quilts, I have a Panda bear scallop quilt that I am trying to do but it is in some type of English pattern I have to get a tutorial on. This is the pattern:

Isn’t it cute? Miranda, our oldest granddaughter, loves panda bears. But again, I cannot do things as the pattern says… I have to change things and make them more difficult. I want it big, not a small blanket to hang on the wall but one that can be used even as a bed cover if necessary. Wish me luck.

October 2023

Fall colors are everywhere in October and I loooove them!

On October 11th, after General Conference, there was a Youth meeting with the participation of Elder Christofferson, President Emily Belle Freeman, and the Utah Area Presidency. The theme was education and its importance. 

“Why do you think the prophet said this?- it is part of our development to become as Heavenly Father- we educate our minds to help others. Education is a resource, as self-reliance, it is a tool. Pres Freeman quoted Churchill- ‘To each come a moment when they are offered a chance to do a task to fit their talents.’ ” She said that there are many things she has done and learned. Events, media, music band, publishing- Then she was called to serve and she has had experience in everything she will need to do in this, her finest hour!” The youth should remember to find joy in learning to be prepared as she was.

On October 16th, we flew to Ohio to visit Kirtland. This visit was with the Directors of the Church History Department, What a treat! Apart from the tours offered by the sister missionaries, we had special talks with some of the historians about the process of restoration, among other things.

We toured the Kirtland temple and sang a special rendition of “The Spirit of God” inside it. We also had a very illustrative and illuminating talk about the Community of Christ church and its development to its present iteration given by one of their Seventies. We also toured the restored house built for Emma and Joseph Smith. In our previous trip, we got to see it while it was still under restoration. Now it is finished and it is beautiful! Joseph and Emma lived in it for four and a half years. The desk in the picture is a reproduction of one that belonged to the prophet Joseph. The original belongs to the Community of Christ.

We also went to the quarry where the blocks for the temple were cut and to the John Johnson Farm, which was not the place where Joseph Smith preached after he was tarred and feathered (along with Sidney Rigdon), as we found out this time. As historians investigate reviewing documents, diaries, and other sources, they find that some stories were not based on the facts but on tradition. It seems that Joseph preached the sermon at a school house nearby the day after he was tarred and feathered. Our last stop was the first presidential library created. It was in the memory of US President James Garfield. He was shot by a deluded man but died because of the ignorance of his doctors who operated on him with dirty hands. He got a terrible infection that killed him slowly and painfully.

And now, the Halloween Parade of the Martinez Family!

Miranda, Natalia and Amelia dressed up as Dolores, Isabela, and Mirabel Madrigal. Alan refused to dress up as anything but a dinosaur rider, This was for a ward party if I am not mistaken, Then for trick or treating in the. neighborhood, a magical princess spy and a cop.

For a party at a friend’s house, Caroline and Lyvi went as Bert and Ernie, and found another set of Bert and Ernie there. For an activity at work, Lyvi was the Jurassic Park, literally. She won first prize!

Pokemon Fever was the theme for Andres and his children… don’t ask me what each one represented. I have been told dozens of times but cannot remember.

The Burkes became the Taco Family with a little Avocado/Guacamole on the side.

Gabo, Nico, Ana, and I went to the ward party. It was so cold that they had to bring the Trunk & Treat celebration inside the chapel. Then for Trick or Treating the temperature went up a little and they did venture out on the street. I got the chance to hug my Minnesota girls.

This month of October we lost my Uncle Robert who was 99 years old and Hugo’s sister Mari, who passed away two days before her 68th birthday. We were sad to have them leave us but we know we will see them again. That is part of the promises left us by Christ, that we will have the opportunity, having complied with His commandments and ordinances, to see our dearly departed again.

October 2023 General Conference

This month’s highlight was having Amelia in Utah for her very first General Conference experience! Of course, she came with Alex and Nuri and we all had an excellent time together.

Thursday before conference, we had the GAW luncheon (picture is in Still September), the training with the General Officers (President Johnson in the photo), a party at the Alvarado’s (Ramon and Jenny Morales in one picture and the Navarro’s in the other one), and a trip to the airport to pickup Nuria, Alex, and Amelia.

We also met with Walter Venegas and his family and Gloria Sheets (nee Fuentes) and her husband. These two were missionaries with us in Guatemala.

For the first time in nine years, Hugo’s seating assignment is not way up there by the choir. It was not in the middle either. They assigned him up front! He came down rather fast after the sessions ended. Another first was a visit from THE Donny Osmond! He came to the rostrum to greet Elder Uchtdorf and then was introduced tp Elder Bednar. It all happened in front of me! On our way out on Saturday we met the Browns, who we met in Jamaica and who are friends with Alex and Nuri. Last but not least, we had our first Awesome Foursome reunion in years with all of us present. Yay! Alex, Nuria and Amelia got to meet with them too.

It was great to have Nuria and Amelia to play with. Yes, I love to play! Board games mostly and Nuri brought a new one about history and time travel. We also played the ones about cats and quilts. We had a lot of fun! Well, at least I did.

The Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square has been inviting members living in foreign lands to sing with them. Puerto Rico sent three of them to participate in this last General Conference. Now this brings me to consider a particular dilemma: Is Puerto Rico a foreign country? Apparently yes. The USA has always considered Puerto Rico “foreign in a domestic sense.” The island is foreign and is “non-incorporated. Let me clarify that when you are born in Puerto Rico, you are born a US citizen and you can get a US passport and fly in and out of the states without a VISA (unless it is the credit card, then you really need it). On the other hand, no matter where you were born, if you are a citizen of the US and live in Puerto Rico, you will be treated differently. All US Citizens living in Puerto Rico do not receive the same benefits and are not subject to exactly the same laws or in the same way as those living in the states of the United States of America. Congress determines how US law will be applied to the island. After one hundred and twenty-five years, Puerto Rico is almost a country but not quite. At least we get invited to sing in the choir, get to participate in the Olympics and in Miss Universe…

Shortly after conference, this meme came out. I find it too cute and apropos.

Before I close, I just want to mention how special General Conference has been to me over the years. At first, we missed out on attending conference when we came to Utah to be sealed for time and eternity at the Salt Lake Temple. We didn’t know we could be there in person or even see it on TV. Then we moved to Puerto Rico and had the experience of watching it in Spanish, our primary language. Nevertheless, we preferred to hear it in English, what others have called the “Language of the Restoration,” with the missionaries who also heard it in English. Then I learned that I could have my questions answered during conference and have enjoyed that blessing for many years. Now it also serves to bring close to us family and friends who are far away. But the most significant meaning of General Conference for me is that I get to hear the Lord’s words through his prophets and revelators.

A little sampling of Conferences of our past.

Still September

One of the highlights of September was going to St. George for our Utah Area Mission Leaders Seminar. One evening we went to the Open House of the recently refurbished St George Temple. It is beautiful! The colors of the furniture, drapes, and carpets inside are deep and rich because that was the way it was when it was first dedicated. You can see images of the inside here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8Bp5Qwl0Ho

On the 12th of September, we drove to the St. George area and stayed at the Inn at Entrada, a very beautiful place and in a very spacious and comfortable room, more like an apartment than a hotel room. Hugo had a presidency meeting that day and the mission leaders weren’t going to arrive until that night for dinner, so I had a few hours to kill. Carolyn Moriyama said she was going to a quilt shop and she invited me, June Pearson, Jill Taylor, and Isabelle Giraud-Carrier. Wouldn’t you know it, we are all quilters in varying degrees! We spent about an hour or more there and left some contributions to the local economy. The best part was that we got to know each other better and had loads of fun!

It was a marvelous seminar with the perfect mix of training and diversion. The first evening, like I mentioned above, we went to the St. George Temple Open House. What a treat! To see all the rooms prior to the dedication and listen to some history of how it was built. It is incredible that these pioneer settlers built two impressive buildings at the same time: the St. George Tabernacle and the Temple. They were not rich or especially trained but the Lord helped them with their task.

The second evening, we went to an endowment session in the Cedar City Temple, another special outing during the seminar.

The last afternoon, we went to the historic sites in the area: Brigham Young’s, House and Office, the St George Tabernacle, and the Jacob Hamblin Home. It is incredible that, again, these pioneer settlers who had it hard establishing themselves in an inhospitable area (a desert that would flood!), could and would dedicate time, effort and resources in building edifices that have lasted for centuries. The last treat was free tickets to “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” musical show at Tuacahn.

Hugo, Elder Kevin Pearson, Elder Bryan Taylor, and Elder Cristophe Giraud-Carrier, the Utah Area Presidency.

I must confess that the best treat of all was the seminar itself. The theme was the Holy Ghost and how to go about all our responsibilities and tasks with the companionship of the third member of the Godhead.

A close second, was getting to know Jill, June, and Isabelle and the other women a bit better.

On our way back to Salt Lake City, we stopped at the Beaver Creamery and got cheeses and ice cream, of course. Then we made our way to Fort Cove. Hugo’s Church History responsibilities include visiting Church History sites, so we intended to make a one hour stop. Three and a half hours later we left with a better appreciation of what the mission site directors and missionaries do and the importance of the fort. For many years it served as a stop for travelers where they could eat a meal and maybe spend the night as needed. It was also the telegraph office and the post office if I am not mistaken. We really have it easy with our modern conveniences!

We always enjoy the theater and went to see “Around the World in 80 Days” at the Hale Centre in Sandy. Lavish and exacting production! So well done that I am amazed every time we go see something there.

We went to have dinner at the Giraud-Carrier’s house in Tooele (which I think is pronounced “tu-IL-a”). Isabelle and Christophe are from France originally. Though they have lived in many countries, she prefers French Cuisine and served us a fantastic meal on her very festive plates. She is also a quilter and seamstress and has created a marvelous workshop for herself. Drool, drool…

The last part of September was preparation for the upcoming General Conference. Here I am with Pauline Kasher and Julia Klebingat and the GA Wives’ Luncheon for October Conference.

Four Spanish-speakers sang with the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square. Most importantly, three of the International singers were from my beautiful island of Puerto Rico. See the article at: https://masfe.org/noticias/coro-del-tabernaculo-latinos-conferencia-general/

September is coming to an end (I will include the things pertaining to General Conference in October) but there are some news to share:

Gabo was accepted in the University of Utah to do his fellowship in Pain Management! That means that Gabo, Alissa, Nico, Ana Luz, and Ellie will be close to us for a year at least. We will do our most to give them the best experience so they will want to stay around longer.

What happened to September?

The question I will answer is “What happened during September?” First, we went on an RV experience with our friends Julie and Gary Price. We met them in West Africa and passed the lockdown and most of the pandemic with them in Accra. Once the country of Liberia opened and Ghana allowed people to leave, they returned to Liberia where they continued to serve as Mission Leaders. After 8 months out of Liberia, the baptisms were as high as before they left. The members owned missionary work and President Price helped them from Accra. Incredible? Nevertheless, it is TRUE! So now the Prices are back home and they invited us for a weekend in their RV. Let me tell you that Puerto Ricans don’t have a history of camping or “RVing”. Maybe I should be more specific and say, these Puerto Ricans, namely Hugo and Nuria… We were there with them and their daughter Annie and her husband, and Gary’s brother and sister-in-law. The latter two were in their own RV.

The Prices own a property they have prepared to park three RV’s. It is near Lava Springs, Idaho, about 2.5 hours from Salt Lake City, but much closer to where they live. The area is beautiful and has a few tourist attractions. We went to the hot springs and, believe me, the water is very hot! There are a lot of places to rent tubes to go down the river and you can watch the people go by from a bridge. In the RV, we had our own room and one of their dogs liked to sleep by the bed, making trips to the bathroom a bit tricky after dark. Fortunately, I never stepped on him.

There are several “soda springs” that spurt out carbonated water. Pioneers on the Oregon Trail discovered them and later the soda water was marketed and sent to the East. It was a great hit until a while later someone started producing soda water chemically and there was no need to import the soda water from these Idaho springs. We visited two of the springs and tasted the water. It tasted better than Perrier. As you can see, it was raining and it didn’t let up at all.

There is a geyser in Lava Springs. Turns out that it will “blow” all the time. It is so forceful that Old Faithful, at Yellowstone National Park, started missing his cues. So the Lava Springs geyser was capped and is allowed to blow every hour on the hour. Old Faithful returned to its regular times. It was my first time to see such a big geyser blow.

We had a marvelous time with the Prices and realized that, if we were willing to put in the work, RVing is great! And it seems it is a lot of work. We appreciated all that was done to ensure our comfort, setting up, prepping and cooking meals, taking us places, and many more things. It was a wonderful experience and we would like to do it again in the future! On our way back home, we saw this weird cloud formation.

The last two grandchildren to start school were Ana Luz and Ben. They were very happy to go to Preschool. The younger siblings at home (Ellie and Gabby) were also very happy to have their respective Mommies all to themselves.

For those who wonder how we have managed to stay together after forty years plus, this is our secret: We don’t speak ill of our spouse to any one, we have a date a week, and we have our hand surgery at the same time with the same surgeon. This last one was really a fluke. I had my left index finger operated on in August and then made an appointment for surgery on my right middle finger. Then Hugo went to the doctor and had his right middle finger checked, also for trigger finger, and his appointment for surgery was made for the same day! For a while there was a little confusion as to when the two surgeries would take place but finally, we went the same day. The couple that gets their fingers fixed together, stay together…